There are Crazy things women do to mess up their love lives, but they can avoid them by following some simple advice:
1. LIVE YOUR LIFE THROUGH YOUR MAN: Women
who let a man control the relationship eventually feel cheated and
angry. Be the best you can be in your own right. You need to take a
stand for things in your life, and in the relationship that you want. Do
not wrap your whole life around his.
2. SETTLING FOR A MAN: Desperate
women settle for any man. Do not settle for anyone less than you
deserve. It may take longer to find the right guy but you will not be
stuck with a fool. Do not act desperate, good men can smell the
desperation kms away. Just be confident, be yourself and believe that
the right man will come along, because he will.
3. CONFUSING PASSION FOR LOVE: Too
many women made love out of a feeling of emptiness or hunger for
approval. The result: Disaster. Sex too soon can make you feel
worthless. Wait and choose a partner you have gotten to like as a person
first. Men actually like women MORE if they withhold sex for a while
because they deem you Marriage material. No man wants to get involved in
a serious relationship with an EASY woman.
4. DO NOT LIVE TOGETHER BEFORE MARRIAGE: Yeah,
this sounds old school, outdated and crazy. Couples who live together
before marriage are one third more likely to break up within 10 years.
Wait until the two of you know, love and respect each other. Then get
married. Make a commitment, then move in. Do not move in without the
commitment.
5. EXPECTING TOO MUCH FROM A MAN: Women
with low self esteem expect marriage to bring total fulfillment. But
they are doomed to disappointment when Prince Charming does not meet
expectations. Choose a compatible mate, not a man you think will solve
your problems. Ask any married woman. Men can not, and do not, solve all
your problems.
6. HAVING A BABY FOR THE WRONG REASON: Women
who have a child to fix a broken relationship often become trapped with
a man they should dump. Make an intelligent decision about having a
child. You have the power over you own body. Do NOT have a baby just to
keep a man in a relationship with you. That spells DOOM and DISASTER.
7. HAVING LOW STANDARDS: Over
the years the standards and requirements of Women have lowered. Men
know that and have taken advantage of it. Many women do not require
anything of a man. So many standards have been lowered by women that now
a man does not have to climb over a very high bar to get to her. So now
you have more men who can get away with more things with more women
without any repercussions. Do not accept less than you deserve. And you
deserve everything.
8. NOT LOVING YOURSELF: Many
women sacrifice everything just to please a man, whether its your
Boyfriend or Husband. Learn to place yourself first in life and be happy
first before transferring the happiness to someone else. Dont live your
life for someone else. Life is short, you need to be happy.
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